- How do we change people’s expectations and perceptions about our family culture?
- This isn’t about putting on a face or “fake it ’til you make it” but about the fact that people act and react to their internal perceptions more accurately than they do reality (if they differ from reality).
- Part of the dysfunction of our culture is that the kids adopt maladaptive strategies based on the expectation that the strategies and techniques we advise will fail them.
- Laura seemed skeptical about talking to Becca and skeptical about being able to make any change or that the kids would get on board with any change.
- I feel determined and hopeful
Action Items
- Tell Laura that I am devoting my evenings to keeping the family media-free between dinner and scriptures.
- Change the computer access schedules.
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