Words Matter

Words matter, they are the bedrock of how we connect.

1. The words of Christ matter
2. The words of prophets matter
3. Our own words matter

Three phrases that can make challenging situations easier: “Thank you”, “I’m sorry”, “I love you”

Words matter!

They are the bedrock of how we connect; they represent our beliefs, morals, and perspectives. Sometimes we speak words; other times we listen. Words set a tone. They voice our thoughts, feelings, and experiences, for good or bad.

Words can celebrate victory, be hopeful and encouraging. They can prompt us to rethink, reboot, and redirect our course. Words can open our minds to truth.

That is why, first and foremost, the Lord’s words matter.

The why behind “the Lord’s words matter” gives the statement more power.

Believing and heeding the word of God will draw us closer to Him. President Russell M. Nelson has promised, “If you will study His words, your ability to be more like Him will increase.”

For anyone who wants to be more like Christ, that gives greater motivation to study His words.

Second, the words of prophets matter.

…President Nelson has a way with words. He has said:

• Keep on the covenant path
• Gather Israel
• Let God prevail
• Build bridges of understanding
• Give thanks
• Increase your faith in Jesus Christ
• Take charge of your testimony
• Become a peacemaker
• Think celestial

He really does have a way with words. These memorable phrases carry a lot of meaning and can be easily remembered.

Third, and so very important, are our own words. Believe me, in our emoji-filled world, our words matter.

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Let me suggest three simple phrases that we can use to take the sting out of difficulties and differences, lift, and reassure each other:

• Thank you
• I am sorry
• I love you

Do not save these humble phrases for a special event or catastrophe. Use them often and sincerely, for they show regard for others. Talk is growing cheap; do not follow that pattern.

I can’t think of a more succinct template for how we should use our words.

Talk is growing cheap; do not follow that pattern.

President Thomas S. Monson used to say, “There are feet to steady, hands to grasp, minds to encourage, hearts to inspire, and souls to save.” Saying “thank you,” “I am sorry,” “I love you” will do just that.

I like the thought that words can be used to steady feet, grasp hands, encourage minds, inspire hearts, and save souls.