Tag: Alex

  • A courageous declaration

    For several days Alex has been asking if we had received the letter he sent us. So far we haven’t. When he learned that we still didn’t have it during our Christmas call today he apparently decided to quit waiting for it to arrive. At the end of our call he sent a chat message…

  • Christmas preview

    We got a preview of Christmas today. Savannah and I were finally home, Aaron came to visit (which he won’t in Christmas) and we opened a few gifts as well as Aaron helping me bring in the new couch for Laura while she was napping. We also managed to do Savannah’s lunch with Dad (Aaron…

  • A grace period

    Insurance came back rejecting further coverage for Alex at the residential facility but his care team has chosen to appeal that and have given us another week before we would have to commit to private pay or else bring him home. I’m hopeful that by the end of another week we can feel good about…

  • One more day (at least)

    We got word back that insurance has met with Alex’s care team but have not made a determination yet so we have at least 1 more day even if they do choose not to authorize continued care. Laura and I still see value in continued care but we are also more prepared if it does…

  • Are we ready?

    I got word today that insurance was asking to meet with someone from Alex’s care team before they determine if he will be authorized for longer. If they don’t authorize more he could come home as soon as Friday. My gut reaction was to worry that if he came home now he would revert back…

  • Straining at the bit

    I don’t know what to say about today. Alex called twice today. The first time he really wanted me to give him a timeline of when he would be finished at Newport. I told him that I didn’t know and that even when I do finally know something we have been instructed not to talk…

  • Settling

    I managed to make some progress this morning. Last night Laura informed me that Enoch had (again) concluded that our deal was broken because of me telling him on Wednesday what the consequence would be if he came home from school again. This morning I talked to him about it and invited him to suggest…

  • Not a fresh start (but a fresh phone)

    Any hope that yesterday was a fresh start for Enoch was dashed quickly today when he failed to get on the bus and instead came home as soon as I left for work. I ended up coming home once I saw Laura’s message and took him back to school while informing him that he was…

  • Year end reviews

    Once again my annual review provided a raise large enough to cover the increased insurance premiums for the coming year. I also got to talk to the psychiatrist who is working with Isaac now. He’s already thinking of shaking up the medications. I sent him the results of the generic testing we had for Isaac.

  • An Enoch day

    I was supposed to take Enoch for an intake evaluation so obviously he actually decided to go to school today. I went to the school to pick him up just as class was starting and his teacher confirmed that he didn’t come to class. When I called Summit about rescheduling they said that his refusal…