Tag: life events

  • Recording Laura in real time

    I have decided that I need to keep a record of the ways that Laura unsecured herself and me as I noticed it happening. The purpose here isn’t to castigate her but rather to ensure that I have a record of events as needed for clarity rather than relying on fuzzy memories without details. I…

  • My Lisi

    Over the course of the last few weeks I have gained a new favorite niece as a fantastic relationship has blossomed between Analese and me. For me the seed germinated after we got back from Dad’s funeral when I had the chance to talk to her one on one a couple of evenings while Laura…

  • Dad’s death – after noon on Monday and the funeral

    Monday afternoon Once dad had passed away and people had finished filtering in and out of the room our attention was turned more fully and directly toward erasing the breach between the families. Bill suggested that we start by going to lunch as a family. He found a place and we all went and spent…