David Journal

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  • A Talk with Isaac

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    I talked with Isaac today about his obvious disdain for our parenting. I told him that there would be no more “every man for himself” and no more “every man prospers according to his strength.” I asked him if we have been too demanding or too aloof? I told him “You let us know when…

  • Blessing for Laura

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    I gave Laura a blessing today and afterward she requested that I write it down as best I could so that she could read it again. I bless you too be able to go through and process the pain, memories, and regrets that you hold rather than trying to put them behind you. I bless…

  • Seventh coaching session

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    HomeworkStep 5What baby steps might take you closer to you desired outcome and/or make your desired outcome clearer? Stop (weeds to pull) Tuning out/escaping the present (usually through games, media, news) Start (seeds to plant) Blocking out the day – fresh start every 3 hours Keep (plants to water) Open communication with Laura regarding schedule…

  • Sixth coaching session

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    The gap between current reality and desired outcome Feelings about current reality: My job was destructive to my ability to function at home – it made me less steady and more tense. Time to focus solely on family concerns is allowing me to find functional strategies at home. Current reality is promising and fairly joyful…

  • Fifth coaching session

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    Homework: What is the gap between current reality and desired outcome? The gap:Things that are standing in the way of my desired outcome? Name it to tame it. Things that pull me into problem orientation. (Financial security is one)• What is going on now in relation to my outcome?• Find objective facts about current reality…

  • Outcome of reforging the Miller Family

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    Outcomes More peace and love in the home. Greater ability to function it in the world. Calmness at home. More love and respect for every member of the family. More feeling of self worth in each person. Each person feel safe. Each person have a sense of who they are and how they can function…

  • Fourth Coaching Session

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    Homework: Continue to flesh out the “how will I know if I am achieving my desired outcome?” Creating for me is larger than small one or two day projects Innovation is a key element Anything that can be a blessing to other people (especially those who are disadvantaged in some way) gets me stoked. Do…

  • Third Coaching Session

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    What do I want to create? A celestial family and a disciples life. If I could have, do, or be anything what would it be? I want to be radiant (developing and using my unique gifts to bless others) – my first preference would be Edgedancer (finding, assisting, knowing those who are forgotten) but I…

  • Second Coaching Session

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    Read 3VQ (mostly) List what do I want I want to be happy I want my family to be stable (emotionally and financially) I want to feel like I’m accomplishing something at work. What are my strengths? I notice patterns & details I can see the big picture I value other perspectives I want to…

  • Alter the Management

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    I’ve been brainstorming today about what changes would fundamentally change the equation for me and the family. Here are things I have identified: Make an unbreakable habit of daily prayer (how?) Fast with purpose Attend the temple regularly Regular family scripture study (is that even possible for us?) Increase income by $1000/month Get a job…